Papa Legba Rite

So I’m not sure this would be a sign but it’s the only dream I remember. In my dream I was at something like a family reunion but some of these people I didn’t know. I heard them call my great grandmother name in my dream. I’ve never seen her before or a picture. Well I kept seeing large amounts of loose change everywhere especially pennies. Then my ex was there at the reunion as well but my ex is a female. She was singing for my family and everyone was gathered around listening to her sing. Well she stopped singing and came to where I was or walked by me. One of my family members called her cause she forgot her cigar (black & mild.) They was like “Papa” and she turned around and got her cigar but threw it down on the couch and I said papa the cigar it’s still lit frantically cause it was going to catch the couch fire. She picked it up put it back in her mouth and walked off and that’s when I woke up. For those of you who has worked with papa, does he come to some in the form of female too?