People need to know how candle magic really works😔

I see a lot of people spending a lot of energy on getting ppl to love them or be with them..If you burnt a few candles different times,different candles for the same thing or tried rituals and it gives you no success 🛑 Stop Not trying to be mean or be negative in any way.. But there is reasons why some magic don’t work on certain situation.. My grandmother practice voodoo and Ifa religion also and the most thing she had problems with ppl understanding is spells and rituals for love or come to me spells and how they work..well speaking from experience I see why she would say..what will be shall be..because everything has a place and time.. and the spirits, your ancestors and guardians angels knows best .. They see things we can not..so don’t force it ,because sometimes spirit will allow it to happen and it can cause damage just to say now you why I said no..and then you would have to spend more time trying to fix what they were telling you no about from the start..as the saying go be careful what you ask for..well I hope someone sees this and feel relieved or got a little knowledge from what I said..so if you did commere gimme a 🤗 hug☺️☺️