One of my Targets who I have been talking to for sometime was working overseas and just came back into the states due to COVID-19 and after years of trying to be together he told me that he had another baby my heart dropped and that she is 4 years old. So the past four years he never mentioned it not one time. He has been home several times throughout the years and never said anything. He told me Thursday . He stop talking to me for a full year twice because I told him I was dating other people because he couldn’t make up his mind on us trying to date and his reasons was he’s overseas and not here. I’m now in a relationship and I feel this brought clarity that I need to focus on me and my BF or should I hear what he has to say because he wants to explain the situation to me. I’m not sure if I should Add him to my DA anymore because he wanted to talk about everything except that he had a baby on me. What should I do family? We haven’t spoken since Thursday night
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Anyone I know that has a child will always tell me first and foremost right after they told me their names.
If someone failed or purposely did not mention their child is DEFINITELY unable to think of things other than themselves. Let alone 4 years of no mentioning.
They are not capable of love, their ego is so high up they are not capable of emotions.
They have issues and you're not the one to fix it. Don't even attempt to.
Please move on we know you're way too good for that.
Girl and you already got a boyfriend anyway? FORGET HIM! He hid a whole ass baby from you. Focus on your new man.
Go your separate ways.
Plus you have a boyfriend ... I wouldn’t focus on someone else if things are fine with your relationship !
Any man who doesn’t tell you about his child is someone who is going to hide a lot from you moving forward .. forget him and find yourself someone else more deserving
You deserve better.... his ass is BLOCKAGE
Definitely time to move on.
Thank y’all I kinda knew we weren’t going to be together but was going to try but no need now😂. DA is for my baby only
Those were all lies! Whatever you thought you had with him sis, was a facade. It seems like you have a better man now. Heal from the liar and be your best self sis!
Excuse my language...this kinda pissed me off
Fuck that ni&&a PERIOD
This was the confirmation that I need to focus on the man who takes really good care and Loves me everyday
What’s so crazy y’all is that he would always say I’m such a great potential and all these things he want from me but could never have a reality with him.
Toss his ass! You deserve better!
I felt that way. I normally would feel butterflies or turned on for him but I didn’t feel that way at all. Every since I placed my order my BF has been on my heels which I LOVE ❤️ .
I would just let that go sis. Focus on yourself and your new relationship.