Reminders to always love yourself and to invest in ways to heal and to be good to you.

This came up on my timeline and right away I knew someone here needed to hear it! Always love you before loving anyone else. We were taught that putting ourselves first made us selfish. How does putting ourself last support us in anyway? Is it fair to give in to others at the sake of our own happiness? Even when we decide to compromise, remember a fair comply will never have you feeling like you betrayed yourself. I’m big on healing cause I carried so much pain and feeling of unworthiness from a absent father, a mean auntie and hurt teachers who hurt me mentally with words. All of this causes problems in relationships seen and unseen. You gotta heal that stuff. One candle may not do it. I buy tons of halo and healing candles. As long as you live and go through life, relationships etc. there will always be new situations you have to heal. Just like eating right and exercise is a way of life so is healing. If your person/ target was ever hurt by love especially our men. You gotta work on their heart and their trust. It’s gonna take candle after candle and your patience. You have to keep doing it!! Happy Sunday!!! Love and light or vex and hex!