Report on Candles/Advice

So most of the candles burned well. Halo was a fast clean burn. So was sweetening and deadly attraction. Rekindle took time...but then at the end it burst into flames and the candle burst. Same with Ahari. Obsession and 4th Venus burned slow and steady but ultimately clean. So I look at my situation, thought about my reading with Papa, and take it to mean the following: 1. The love is definitely there. There isn't anyone else and he is faithful to me. 2. It will take time to fully be back to what we once were. Patience is a virtue, both with him and myself. 3. He has a lot of personal issues (he lives with his parents, both of whom are unemployed at the moment due to COVID, and he and his brother are the sole breadwinners. He doesn't make that much and he's pulled in all directions. The brother lives with them too. For reference, this is an Italian family which is not that unusual for us...). 4. He is afraid of committing. He had one girlfriend for 10 years prior to me, and she wasn't good to him. That explains the hesitancy in commitment. Papa is going to do some work for me on this which he's not done with yet so I won't report on that quite yet. Thoughts? Perhaps a separation candle between him and his family? [They're not bad people. Just in an unfortunate circumstance. We all get along and I love his mother, especially.] Wait it out? Definitely saw immediate movement in a lot of directions.