Spirits trying to tell me something?

So Wednesday night Iknw I was dreaming of something but I can’t remember exactly what it was about because I couldn’t see anything other than just white, but I kept waking up laughing and smiling so many times in the middle of the night. Sounds scary because this has never happened to me before but I let it go. I woke up in a good mood Thursday morning after that happened and I was in a good mood all day. Any ways Thursday night (last night) I was finally able to see and remember a dream. Well my dream consisted of my being with another girl 70lbs heavier than myself and they had a baby together that was like 5-6 months? And that baby looked so much like my ex (my target). In the dream, my ex was being so mean to me and we were all a party at his sisters house (who he lives with). He was being mean to me not because hated me but because he wanted to make me jealous and like you could tell. Later on after him being mean to me he posted on IG story a list of guest and items he needed to buy with a caption that said “I think the time is here to spend the rest of my life with you. 💍” and he did it because I kept checking his IG story. Mind you I don’t have him on IG in real life. I’m the dream I cried not because I was jealous but because he was so mean to me for no reason. Like all I kept saying was “why are being so mean to me?” Etc. Now he’s the thing too, I’ve been contemplating on doing the Papa legba Rite and the Erzulie Freda Rite so I can have that extra help in my manifestation and candle work. But I’ve been very hesitant. I feel like this might be a sign that the spirits are telling me to do it or something. Cuz also yesterday all day I’ve been see quotes like (below pictures) “have faith everything will work in you favor.” “Blockages are being removed don’t give up just yet.” “What you prayed for is on its way to you sooner than you think.” Etc, Something like that. But after one of those quotes right under it I see a post of some sandals that had my ex’s favorite basketball team on them and in big letters it’s said “Dad”. (I’ll post the video in the comments.) which is weird because last year he started saying that he was looking into getting a vasectomy because he ain’t want kids. Maybe I need to sweeten him? Cuz I already did my cleansing candles and I did the intense U|H|H on myself after doing the Unhex, Halo and Healing candles separately. And I also did the intense U|H|H on my ex too. now I just need to do Mars and Crossroads for both of us. What do you guys think?