Suggestions please

I have posted on this forum a few times but I am looking for suggestions. My story is a bit long My boyfriend and I broke up on New Year’s Eve cause i just felt I was never a priority. A few of his friends came in from out of town and there is just something I don’t trust with them. (Especially the girl cause they had a past together) I want him back but I want to be a priority. I ordered halo, healing, and rekindle. Is that they way I should burn them?? I eventually am going to get the seperation candle for him and the girl. But to get him back what else do you suggest. He came over the other night and told me he really needs to think about this relationship and I haven’t heard from him since. Please and thank you family ❤️❤️