Suggestions please ‼️

Hello everyone! This is the first time i have started using these candles and I trying to get my husband back !! We had very rough 2 years and now is my last effort to save my marriage .... Long story short ... post pandemic my husband is WFH n my son who is 2 years old doesn’t sleep throughout the night he wakes up around 4-5 am everyday .... my husband sleeps in different room ... but when my son wakes up he will come to comfort him .. kid sleeps in my room ... ‼️‼️plus my husband is extremely allergic to essence smoke or fragrance .. if he smells anything he gets headaches that last days and he sneezes non stop ... ‼️‼️ I use my candles 🕯 through the night but again I can’t keep them going for 6 or more hours without him entering the room .. he doesn’t leave the house for more than 4-5 hours ... I have to only do it in his absense , or When he sleep , the window of hours I get is too short ... what should I do now ? I have to snuff my candle in 4-5 hours max .... I try to explain my situation to the sprits n ask for help ... What else can I do ??? Any suggestions ❓❓❓