Months ago, I lit the healing +2pom candle for my relationship with my target. A lot of hurts resurfaced, we fought, said painful things to each other, didnt talk for days and finally he opened up about how toxic my jealousy was in our friendship, that he hides things from me just because he knows I'm going to react excessively and badly if he does. A girl could just comment his pictures on social media and I start a fight. Tears. And bad attitude for days. I've never thought that my behavior was pushing him away from me. I thought it was just me being vigilant this time cause my ex cheated so many times on me and everytime I was the last person to know. He asked me once how would be our relationship as lovers if we don't have peace first as bestfriends. Healing made me realize that peace was lacking between us and it is one the most important thing for him that he wants in a relationship. Maybe that's why none of the love rituals I've purchased at that time from Tina worked. Healing just opened my eyes from past hurts that I needed to heal so I can find peace and happiness.
It takes days, months, to unlearn toxic patterns you've been holding on to for years. I decided to work on myself and kept burning healing every time I felt like my anger, my jealousy and possessiveness want to take over. He's a very wellknown person and tonight he had a live conference. The amount of girls who were 😍💖💖 at him in the comment section, Jeez! 😒😒😒
But I stayed very calm and made fun of it. He just told me that he really appreciates that I'm not causing a scene just because a few girls sent 💖 or told him how much he's this or that, and that he wants to be able to tell me openly who slides in his dm etc
I think it's definitely movement! Moral of the story, don't sleep on the Healing candle and your healing work. The candles will do their part, but you have to do yours too. Maybe your blocages are you, your past hurts, that toxic trait that keeps holding you back in your relationship. Heal yourself, heal your partner or target, heal your relationship!
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Now I'm going to layer with 4pos and 1pos together at midnight to make sure he stays away from all those girls.
Wow ❤️ Appreciate him! He's definitely a keeper! It's great that he wants to be honest and vulnerable. Glad healing is helping you out 💙
Totally agree, work on you first. Thanks for sharing❤️