The tongue is a powerful thing

I just to let y’all know when y’all are manifesting and doing magic on an ex or target the intention have to be pure. The universe knows when you are speaking from an egotistical vibe or from spirit. I remember learning one thing is “‘mind your intentions” and very thing you do is intention whether it’s good or bad. I’ve been manifesting and didn’t realize until my late 20’s that’s what I’ve been doing. I use to date this guy long story short and cut him loose when i came to the conclusion that i wasn’t happy with him but happy with the thought of being with him. Anyways i remember i always use to same i pray he change and wake up. I pray the next girl he gets he treat her better. I pray he learns his lesson and tapin spiritually. I would always say this everytime he post on social media because he was full of bs. I wholeheartedly was genuine, sincerely deadass serious 😂 and not realizing what i was consciously doing was manifesting. Why months down the line after we lost contact i get an email with his name asking if we can meet and talk so i agreed. I went for a walk and he was just apologizing for everything and saying that i was the one. He wanted a child and all. This man grew locs, and became vegan, he carried a gallon of water everywhere he didn’t have social media nor a phone. So I’m like why don’t you have a phone he said because he rather be disconnected. He was just so spiritual and full knowledge and he is who i learned this spiritual journey from. I was like damn wth happened to you 😂 now I’m 28 and it just hit me this was me all along. I created that reality granted i never asked or wanted to manifest him back. I didn’t know what wtf i was doing I was young. i was praying he change for the better and saying i hope he knows different girls and social media ain’t going to get him anywhere. I didn’t manifest him back he came back in his own. Needless to say the tongue is a powerful thing and just don’t try to get a target back figure out why and if it’s genuine or stemming from ego. Some can get their target back but there’s no change. Y’all end up losing that very thing y’all manifested. Hope this helps