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There's this guy..

There's someone I like, like i'm FEELING him and I desire a relationship with this individual. Lately, we have not been in communication and I have seen him since last August. I miss our bond so much that i'm afraid me and him won't see each other again. It hurts my heart because I feel like there's a bond that's still here and I don't want to lose it or him. We have one, he even called me his bestfriend 😩❤ He's my baby and It makes me nervous and deep inside I can't stand us not knowing each other. I KNOW we have potential, I fear us not having the chance to expand what we have. I know deserve this and sometimes I get nervous about expressing my feelings to him. I want this guy to become my boyfriend. I wanted to used DA BUT I get nervous at the thought of other men talking to me because he's who I want it from. And I know DA gives that sexual attraction and confidence (it's what i need) because I really want to open up to him if you know what i mean but i'm so hesitant because i'm timid due to limited experience 🙄 I was thinking Rekindle, Loyalty and Sweetening, plus Lust since DA would leave overwhelmed lol.. Anyone has any suggestions? I like him genuinely and I don't want to loose him. It'll hurt.

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All things are Possible

Feb 25, 2020

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All things are Possible

Feb 25, 2020

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All things are Possible

Feb 25, 2020

What is the current status of the relationship? Are you guys homies, lovers, friends, speaking terms or not, does he love you or not. All those questions play a role before you pick your candle .

keara

Feb 25, 2020

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@All things are Possible Friends. We established everything before we really got to know each other. And I know where we stand. But I desire more. I respect his boundaries and never try to convince him I can change his mind. I pretty much know where things are, just taking it UP a notch with him is my intention.

keara

Feb 25, 2020

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@All things are Possible Yes we are on speaking terms, just not how we were in the last couple months.

Goddess Hy

Feb 25, 2020

Are you not in communication because something happened and you’re not on speaking terms?

keara

Feb 25, 2020

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@Goddess Hy Oh no, nothing happened. He became busy with work and then the communication started to fade off in latee September until now. Today's his birthday so I did text him and I will be seeing him soon. We talked a lot prior to that because he had a lot of time on his hands before working (in July). We never argue or anything. We vibe pretty great. I just want to take this risk and order some candles. But idk, If he feels the way I do.

Goddess Hy

Feb 25, 2020

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Oh, that’s good! I’d say let it develop organically. If anything you can put some magic on yourself to increase self esteem, confidence and appeal- and then just let it flow. If you haven’t done so already, halo, healing and DA all with the focus being on you. Since y’all are “besties” then you can interact with him and see what happens. And if y’all besties, then talk with him about the attention you receive (post DA) and see how he responds. Also, you have an advantage by being friends with him first. You have the opportunity to get to know him and EXPERIENCE different settings with him without pressure. Link up and do “Bestie” stuff and enjoy the moment. I did the above with my male bestie (like your friend, he’s the one that started calling me bestie) and we have some greeeeeeeeat times together but he’s not the man for me. Problem now is, he’s dropping hints and trying to become a Bestie with benefits. Anywho boo, you have the advantage. Don’t be intimidated and don’t be scared. Work on yourself, experience different settings with him and then see what happens ✨✨✨