This is a forum not a place of judgement!

Just like somebody made a post about people testimonies being too long they need to just get to the point. This form is for testimonies in our stories and for us to help so nobody should be writing a post criticizing somebody else for writing details about their testimony.

I don’t have a problem answering people’s questions, if I can help why not. I wish I new more so I could help, unfortunately I am quite new to this as well, but I try my best not to ask questions because I see some people’s posts are quite rude, I try to read Lala’s booklet as much as I can, I read people’s testimonies and that is how I learn, but Sometimes you do have to ask questions, I am sure people with more experience started the same way by asking questions, and I think Lala made this forum with that purpose so we can help each other, we have to be patient with people, otherwise there is not point of being in this forum. 💙

I see both sides. There are certain people that are and have been extremely rude. Yelling and making posts talking down to others. That can turn people away which means Lala losing money or it can lead to people being afraid to ask something and not doing things correctly. BUT there rare also lazy people. There are certain questions that are asked every week. Every day. I can understand getting tired of having to constantly direct people to the book or screenshot etc for the same questions. The same with orders. I am not a vet.

I agree, understanding people learning styles and skill levels is important. Some can read and understand, some for the lack of a better term needs it dumb down, some are visual learners. Its very understood why on both ends from the vets and newbies the tension. It is uncomfortable to see the same question repeatedly asked in the same day. You answer on in hopes others see, then there are some thats just looking for the wrong answer. If that makes sense. You say wait 3 days but they want to keep changing the question so you can tell them otherwise. Its completely frustrating. Protect your energy at all times for that reason.

Thank you so much for this post cause I’ve read the booklet multiple times and I still need reassurance sometimes to make sure I’m doing everything correct

I think it’s important to understand the background. Some “vets” of the forum had also “left the forum,” frustrated by floods of posts asking basic questions that are answered in Lala’s booklet. The so called “vets” who stayed in the forum just ignored those posts and they went unanswered. So newbies started answering the questions posted by newbies. And those answers were incorrect, meaning they deviated from what Lala wrote in her book. As a result newbies then posted complaints about seeing no movement. So there’s a tension between those who come to the forum to learn the basics and those who want to enhance their work. That is why Lala pinned the post that implores people in the forum to 1) read the booklet; and 2) take ownership of their own situation (No Lazy Conjure). Though it may seem rude when people redirect you to the booklet, they are actually helping you be the master of your own journey in the long run. So it’s hit or miss if you post a basic question. Sometimes you will get no answer. Sometimes you will get the right guidance. But sometimes you won’t because it is not what the book says. Just my two cents.

It’s enough that we have to deal with rudeness, judgement,attitude,prejudice and then some outside of this forum. This should be a place where we empower and help each other regardless of how many questions are asked. We are here to not only better ourselves but better our lives!

Facts!!! Sometimes its also nice to be reassured from people who have done it. Im not guna lie sometimes I hesitate to ask questions cause I dont want to get yelled at or feel dumb.

It’s sad that this even had to be said 🤦🏾‍♀️