man oh man, where do i begin.
So me and my ex broke up early December and I started my healing journey January/feb and then got more into cleanses and candle work for myself. I eventually got into lalas spelled candles and got into love work after getting to a good place with myself. Even though I’ve had great movement with my ex throughout the past 2/3 months, I think I might have caused a bit of confusion with my work/rituals and might’ve put things in a bad spot with being impatient, doubting, and we are soo much alike. (Both Cancers, 5 days apart) it feels like something gets in the way and then things get inconsistent and frustrating and he’ll push me away or I’ll push him away
Mind you I started with Butterfly and passion rituals and halo in feb then did soulpurge, unhex as well as healing, and the rekindle bundle in March then adoré rituals last month. I’ve seen great movement from all except adoré but now I’m back to square 1. We had a disagreement, pushed him away and blocked each other and have not talked since April. we’re both frustrated. I did reach out the other day but no response, but he still spy’s from his burner IG. Wouldn’t be surprised if he’s seeing someone else now.
I feel like the past months have been wasted. I’m not even sure I want to continue or what my next steps should be. do I need to start over? I have Venus conjure and blockbuster ritual this month.
Advice? Tips?
At this point focus on you and your healing. Since you are having disagreements there is something in your connection that needs to be addressed and healed or no amount of candle work you do is going to last, you need to address what’s causing the disagreements and do the work. Release him, for now and focus on yourself, and really think about your role in the disagreements and look within to address what you need to heal within you... once you have done that you may find that either he isn’t the one, or he is your destiny and you will be in a better position to communicate when you reconnect.
I'm a cancer too sometimes we can get in our own way with those thoughts and self doubt stay positive and believe in your magic
Hmm facts over feelings ! If you determine to get him back go for it .
If you have the Sweetening candle burn that for him. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
No need to start over. Spirit is testin you to see if u give up....know he will unblock soon