Timing with Sweetening and DA

Hey everyone! Sorry this is a bit long 🙈 Looking for help with some timing with candles I already purchased to help with my relationship.

This week my partner told me he isn't sure about us, but when I went to move out he wanted me to stay and didn't want to be without me. I have now decided to go anyway, to give us both some time and space. I do love him of course and want to be with him, but I think this is the only way he will realise and respect me because at the moment he knows I am there for him no matter what and however he treats me. It's painful, but I need to be strong.

Once I move out I would like to use Sweetening and DA hopefully to help initiate a conversation between us and intensify the feelings he has for me while I'm gone to help us move towards a more positive relationship in the future. I was going to burn Sweetening straight away, but I have three months or one month at least moved out depending on what happens, so wasn't sure whether to wait and burn it in a couple of weeks' time?

Thanks in advance for help!!