UnHex and a Seperation Jar!

I cleanse my area and myself I put in a jar milk and vinegar..cayenne pepper..peppercorns...red chole flakes..rusty nails ..seperation oil and I get to pieces of paper on each I write the person's name and place the papers with the names back to back not together..I pray for peace on my part and drama hurt arguments and pain for them when they are together. I put the jar in a dark place outside of my house for 24 hours then I dispose if the jar away from my house and I never look back when walking or driving away from where I dispose of it. I put my own spin on the jar after watching and reading about seperation jars. I also sage and cleanse after. It works

Where can I or how can I get/make separation oil