Unhex ? I made some mistakes in sequence or timing?

If we did love work on an ex and now we are just like whatever about it... if I unhex all over again, does it remove everything off of him or just me? just love work?

am going to be honest with you. silly me I put him in hex conjure After soul tie removals for me and him etc because in all honesty he did some shit to me while together that justifies it. I rather not get into it here. and I thought I was done

but then when it looked as if from stalk websites that things are not yet as bad for him, I thought meh maybe he was protected from it?

so then I made the big mistake of doing more love work and layering..and this is when I realized he was TF for me to be having hard time letting go for months aftee months and being back and forth in my head about, nah you got him hexed so f him and never be with him again to avoid suffering with him in his curses. vs. Feeling weird mixed shit because of the past love and th existing TF sigh. (And yes I stupidly did th binding one and had done the lve binding/ tether ritual too although I never lit tether or obsession..

so am agitated since then and this is why I stoped lighting th candles on him. But yday when 4pov arrived I kept hearing, light this up already and I resist it.

genuinely I have no other interest presently in another guy for me t o have a specific target..

now i am in another mood to having him hexed again but still avoiding buying or using 6pos myself. Idk

what should I Do? Start over for myself or star over on him.?) It is like an purging mixed feelings all over again )