My Boyfriend of 5 yrs has agreed to allow me to use my candles on him. I suggested it to him as joke but, he was serious. He knows all about them. He doesn't question my spiritual decisions,He allows me to do ANYTHING I want as long as it doesn't harm him or Our children.
I have an "AA" that I have had for a while. and an Altar to Legba that I recently created in our house. He is so sweet. when I need to have time with my Ancestors, and Legba. He watches our children so that I can have whatever time I need with the spirits.
I don't do anything without permission. Any candles that I buy are strictly for me. I can't use them right now anyways because I REALLY don't DO much of anything. I go to work and come home to my kids.
No, I don't want that to be my whole life, but none of that warrants me lighting the candles that I have. so when I get them they sit on a shelf until I have figured out a proper Candle roadmap for myself.
However, My Boyfriend already knows what he wants to do. and is able to do so. He just needs a little push. He's a procrastinator. So, this will be the first time that I will have done anything on anyone besides myself.
The Candles that I currently have are: GoodFortune,Mars,Crossroads,Intense:Halo|Healing|Unhex, SIRE, Truth, and Obsession. I have more on the way as well.
Q1. what's the Candle process that I should follow?
Q2. If I decide to want to do it with him, How is that done?
Maybe look into Tina's unstoppable ritual for him.