So I felt that my candle path was clear. I had done the following: Unhex Halo 4POSaturn Healing (for myself and my target) The reason I did 4POSatun before healing was to heal wounds after what separation occurred due to the conjure. After doing healing about a week and a half ago - my target (who I spoke to all the time but hadn’t seen in 3 months) reached out and we met up for our first date in months. However, about a day after the convo dwindled a lot. I finally called him out yesterday for being radio silent and was like “if you don’t feel the same about me after seeing me for the first time in months - it’s cool. Just be a man and come clean. I’ll be good” he then texted back saying “please. No I’m sorry I’m just going through a lot and I can’t focus”. So I said I would give him his time and space and I would be there if needed. Soooo - the point of all this (and the reason for the backstory) is that I’m not sure what candle to do next. I had planned 2POM and obsession tomorrow before all this happened but am now wondering if I jumped the gun on healing and should have waited for 4POSaturn to show more movement instead of the three day rule. I have another Healing candle - should I use that again, just on my target - even though I did one for him two weeks ago?? Or should I go and do 2POM and Obsession as planned? He seems in a bad way and I don’t want to do love work until he’s a bit more right in the head. What is everyone’s thoughts??? Thank you for the advice, fam!!!
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What’s next? Need advice. *long post - I’m sorry*
What’s next? Need advice. *long post - I’m sorry*
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Healing for sure people heal in different ways and different timeframe. I would just do six hours chant for his healing and peace over mind, body, and soul. Allow him that time truthfully you don’t want to do too much work at once it will run him off or make him shut down. In the meantime I would let him know that you support him and understand he is going through something that he may not be able to fully explain or express. Check on him through out the week as well let him see the nurturing side of your femininity. Men go through just like women but are told to suck it up ( I hate this ) but let him see that you care. He will be drawn to you and once he comes around and is steady then hit that Obsession. After that Mars to protect your work. Hope this helps