Hi family!! So I’m looking for some advice on what candles can help me with a situation. I have been with my spouse for almost 19 years. I want out of the relationship and he doesn’t. There are many factors that have lead up to my decision such as me no longer having any interest in working on the marriage any longer, infidelity in the past, him being controlling, forcing himself on me when I don’t want to be intimate, and more. I have done work for me in the past (unhex-halo intense, healing and Mars) and I’m going to start the cleansing and healing process over again this weekend. What candles can I use to make him leave peacefully without things turning violent and possibly putting my children and I in any danger. I say that because he has made threats that if I leave he will kill me. I just want him to accept the fact that I don’t want to be with him no more and he needs to move on since he feels as if I have destroyed his life and I bring him nothing but bad luck.
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This is a dangerous situation, respectfully, please seek out help from the authorities and domestic violence counsellors who can help with a SAFE exit plan. Candles should be secondary, only. Sending you so much love and protection mama 💕🕊 Please keep us updated ♥️
Thank you everyone for your advice. I’m going to work out an exit plan and start working on protecting myself and my kids. I will keep you guys posted along the way.
I would first , start unhex halo and healing, and protection, then I would sweeten him so he can accept the breakup. Then do as i say,, Then use the separation candle then transport ,once u moved out cloak
Okay - so this is my arena all day, unfortunately. There's a spiritual and psychological battle going on here. As above, so below.
First and foremost, you need to protect yourself. Spiritually and right here in the 3D. Mars and Cloak (from him, not the authorities), also mix the fiery wall of protection for you and your children.
Unfortunately, these types of entities like your husband may not adhere to the spirits in these candles. They tend to answer to a different type of energy, so focus your energy on yourself and your children. Lala said on her live, "What candle do you do for a narcissist? What do you do with a narcissist? Leave!" There's a reason for that both spiritually and contextually.
Lastly, you will have to up and move - literally. I helped a friend once in a similar situation, he worked nights, and as soon as left I put on my timbs, jeans, and a sweatshirt and we moved her out like a thief in the night.
You cannot under any circumstance have him use your empathy against you. Take the warnings seriously and just GO. Also, do not depend on your closest family and friends to help you, these type of energies will hoover them to find you. Go and get a restraining order if needs be.
I can go on and on, but please know this. candles/rituals cannot save him but they can potentially save you. Do NOT waste time healing him. Do not waste your resources on this mofo. Be smart, grey rock, do not show too much emotion, move in silence and GET GOING. If you need help with resources, hit me up.
In addition, sounds like you may need Dantor and/or Ogou as well.
Nawwww You Need Protection From HIM , The Fact He Threatening To Kill You If You Leave... Dont Take That Lightly Queen .. ☹️☹️
Maybe the transport candle and protection. I have to look to see which solomonic candle it is but the one for transport. I remember it saying you can also use to get someone to move out.
Do as I say, transport…..make a separation jar until the 4th POS comes back, Cloak,