Which candle do I use ?

My child fathers wife / ex wife has been OBSESSED with me for a long time since I had my daughter ... she is a police officer & I can’t let go how she tried to send my child father over to my home to “ rough me up “ & he carry guns 🤨 he apologized multiple times after and I still feel as though she has this OBSESSION over me ... I planned on moving ( as she found out where I live ) & for some odd reason being that they broken up ? He says don’t worry bout it she not gonna do anything but in my mind she went the great lengths to try to hurt me before and we haven’t even talked in 2 years ....